“The effects of banning abortion transcend political or religious interests. When abortion is criminalized, women resort to illegal abortions; that is a comparative as well as historical fact. Banning abortions does not stop women from having them; it simply makes abortion “invisible.” Prohibiting abortion - as has always been the case - forces abortion underground and makes it the privilege of the wealthy, while further disenfranchising poor women, who generally bear the brunt of such policies. For poor women, illegal abortions are typically done by unqualified practitioners - the woman herself, backroom abortionists - and result in increased maternal deaths as well as maternal and fetal physical deformities.”

~Political Demography: The Banning of Abortion in Ceausescu’s Romania, Gail Kligman

Is someone you know indecisive? Here is a person who is open to all possibilities. He or she usually sees many alternatives in any given situation. This person is often flexible, open-minded, and philosophical. Statements that make this type of person feel good are:

- I like being with someone who takes time to make a decision and doesn’t act impulsively.

- I like being with someone who considers other people’s feelings and needs along with his own. People who know you are lucky to have someone who listens to everyone’s opinion and gives everyone a voice in the final decision.

Do you know someone who you think is egotistical? Here is a person who knows what he or she wants. This person is goal-oriented and usually assumes leadership roles. He or she takes on a great deal of responsibility. He or she is often independent, confident, and strong-willed. Statements that make this type of person feel good are:

- I like the way you are always in control of a situation.

- It is so wonderful to be with someone who feels good about themselves. You teach people to stand up for what they believe in.

- It is great being with someone who is so positive in their approach to life.

Do you view someone as disorganized? This is a person who is fun to be with. He or she has the ability to live in the present. This person is never in a hurry and will make you stop and smell the roses. He or she is often creative, spontaneous, and multifaceted. Statements that make this type of person feel good are:

- I like the way you can do many things at the same time. It’s so nice to know someone who puts fun ahead of orderliness.

- I like the way you don’t let little things bother you. You always have such original ideas.

Do you know someone who you think is too emotional? Here is a person who usually lives life in a passionate way. He or she has a deeper level of understanding because he or she is very sensitive and intuitive. This person is often tender, compassionate, and sentimental. Statements that make this type of person feel good are:

- I like the fact that you are deeply concerned about everyone.

- I like the fact that I can tell you anything and you can feel what I feel.

- I like the fact that you feel so passionate about life.

- I like how deeply things touch you.

~Dr. Ellen

A Mighty Girl - books and movies for mighty girls

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Interesting new site A Mighty Girl has launched compiling books and movies for smart, confident and courageous girls of all ages. Featuring books such as Philip Pullman’s Golden Compass and movies from Bend It Like Beckham to Coraline there is something for everyone who wants to see girls as leaders and heroes not just sidekicks and love interest. Check out the site for might girl inspiration here. (via Kitschy Coo on Pinterest)